In my mid to late 20s I took some time to find myself, and by that I mean have a lot of sex with whomever I wished, guilt-free. Some would call it a spiral, but I saw it as more of a liberation- the old “have sex like a man” adage, where I took whatContinue reading “Mr Grey (My First Dom)”
Category Archives: Real Life
The Professor
Sometimes two people inexplicably click. Different life stages, different backgrounds, different experiences- there is little reason for them to interact, let alone connect- but sometimes, the universe intervenes to make it happen. That is how I would contextualize the Professor. He is a father of grown children (slightly younger than me), divorced, in a long-termContinue reading “The Professor”
Tormentor and Protector
One of the things that I appreciate most about Mr. Envelope is the level of care that he puts into hurting me. As he wrapped lengths of rope around my legs, binding me to a spreader bar to keep them open, his touch was sensual, deliberate. I lay on the bed with wrists cuffed toContinue reading “Tormentor and Protector”
Mr. Envelope
Introducing Mr. Envelope: intelligent, deliberate, self-aware, unassuming. My height, slim build, strong hands. He likes to play with rope, take photos, and explore boundaries when it comes to pain. He does with a great deal of care and, ironically, gentleness. I would describe his style as two parts sadism, one part sensual, and eight partsContinue reading “Mr. Envelope”
The Practice of BDSM (and how it compares to Yoga)
Under the umbrella of BDSM there is something for everyone- there is no shortage of opportunity to explore, learn, and grow, if that’s what you’re into. Those who want to dip a toe into the pool might find a new favourite toy or fetish, while those who dive in may find identity and belonging thatContinue reading “The Practice of BDSM (and how it compares to Yoga)”
Perfectly Painted
In an effort to get my head on straight before going back to work after the holidays, I invited Mr. Intensity over for a play. His plan was to use me as he saw fit, and leave it at that- a plan that he executed flawlessly. He arrived and we caught up for a bit-Continue reading “Perfectly Painted”
Mr. Intensity
I am not easily intimidated. I have a bit of a superiority complex, and I am fairly self-assured. Every now and then, though, someone comes along to make me doubt whether I might be the smartest person in the room. I don’t particularly care for the feeling, but it is a surefire way to getContinue reading “Mr. Intensity”
Dominant Partners: Cast and Crew
Over the next few weeks, I am going to introduce you to some current and former partners. Every Dom’s style is different, and I have had the privilege of learning from some incredible people. I don’t submit casually; while I do immensely enjoy casual sex, the D/s thing requires a whole lot of trust andContinue reading “Dominant Partners: Cast and Crew”
New Protocol
The thrill of a new partner is always such a high- the way his energy consumes a room, his smell enveloping you before his hands even touch you. The feel of new hands dancing along your skin, that first tentative crush of lips together. Last night, I played with a new partner- and he didContinue reading “New Protocol”
The Long Game
We’re having dinner at my sister’s place. Everyone is standing around the kitchen chatting away, kids and dogs are running around. Comfortable chaos. He sees my wine glass is empty, offers to refill it. I follow him to the counter, a bit away from everyone. When he hands me my glass, I give him aContinue reading “The Long Game”
Down the Rabbit Hole 